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6 Gay Moms Who Are Redefining Motherhood on TikTok

Updated: Feb 12

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In a world that is becoming increasingly interconnected, platforms like TikTok are paving the way for diverse voices to be heard — like LGBTQ+ moms. The more mothers we see like us, who are doing motherhood in their own way, the more we feel a part of a larger community.

We’ve found six inspiring women who are using TikTok to break down stereotypes, showcase their version of motherhood and connect with other moms, just like you. Check out how these incredible gay moms are redefining the narrative one TikTok at a time.

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@team2moms: Celebrating Diversity in Family Structures

Meet Ebony and Denise, the faces behind @team2moms. Through their TikTok videos, the couple shares snippets of their daily life as gay moms raising two children. They emphasize the importance of celebrating diversity in family structures and showcase the love and warmth that define their household. They also include their two little ones in their content — which is pretty adorable.

@alexandwhitney: Embracing Unconventional Parenting Styles

Alex and Whitney, the dynamic duo behind @alexandwhitney, challenge traditional parenting norms. From unconventional family rituals to embracing individuality, they showcase that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. The two lesbian moms started out their TikTok by sharing their journey through trying to get pregnant, finding out about their pregnancy, and finally, becoming mothers together.

@tormunoz: Showing What Family Can Be

Tori, a passionate advocate for LGBTQ+ families, runs @tormunoz. Through her TikTok, she shows her life of being a lesbvian mom, how her dreams of family have come true and snippets of her daily life in motherhood. She went viral when her little one called both of their mom’s ‘dada’ — her bio is now: ‘My kid says mommy now ok.’ If you’re looking to follow a fun, smaller lesbian mom channel that feels like real life, this one's for you.

@dusty.n.cali: Documenting Fun, Love and Fam

From documenting their IVF journey to first steps and heartfelt talks, @dusty.n.cali captures the essence of parenting as experienced by The Harvey’s. These moms have used their TikTok to document their journey to motherhood, their pregnancy, what it’s like to have a wife, daily milestones and cherished moments that make their family unique, inspiring others to savor the beauty in the ordinary.

@caitandclem: Sharing the Beauty of Lesbian Motherhood

For Cait and Klem, lesbian motherhood has been a beautiful journey, one that they’ve always wanted. This TikTok account, managed by one gay stay at home mom, shares their happiness and joy in their daily mom life. With just one little toddler, they often dress up for holiday videos together as a family, or show their morning routines. Watching their TikToks almost feels like you’re on a FaceTime call with them. 

@a.r.leigh: Motherhood Can Look Many Different Ways

For Amanda Leigh, a gay mom of four little ones, she uses her TikTok to document that you can be a lesbian mother and so much more. She documents her life as a mother, firefighter and gym enthusiast and is known to post fit checks with her partner, cute videos with her kiddos and of course, a few thirst traps here and there. All of her videos incorporate some humor into mom life, too. 

It’s true: TikTok has become a powerful platform for gay moms to share their unique experiences of motherhood, breaking down stereotypes and showcasing the diversity within the LGBTQ+ parenting community.

Make sure to follow these awesome moms as they continue to redefine the narrative, one TikTok at a time, inspiring countless others to embrace the beauty of love and family.


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