Make this the month you stop doing queer motherhood alone.
You don't need another mom group.
You need people who actually show up.
Not a gay mom, but still want to support?
Gay Moms Club is member-funded. No big brands, no outside agenda.
If you're not a gay mom but want queer families to have a space that's actually ours, a paid membership is how you show up for that.
Help us stay scrappy and independent. 💛Megan, Founder + Gay Mom
Hi, I'm Megan
I'm a gay mom who spent a long time thinking connection was supposed to just… happen.
It didn’t.
Not in Facebook groups.
Not in DMs that never turned into plans.
Not in “we should hang out sometime” energy that quietly dissolves into nothing.
So I built what I couldn’t find.
A place where you don’t have to perform, scroll, or prove you belong.
Just show up... and actually meet people.
Enter Draft Week
This is how every new member enters.
For one week, we open small group matching. You’re placed into a group of queer moms who are also joining right now.
You’re not catching up.
You’re building something together, from day one.
Enter the draft
You opt in and fill out a quick intake so I can match you thoughtfully
1
Team selection
We place you into a small group based on your responses (this part is very human, not automated… yet)
2
A week of connection
Participate in the small group chat + two virtual hangouts
3
Stay connected
Your group stays open so you can keep talking if it clicks
4
The moms who actually make friends?
They don’t just join a community.
They enter it together.
You can’t drop into an already-formed group and expect it to click.
You can’t force connection in a giant feed.
You can’t “circle back later” and expect it to feel the same.
The moments that work?
They’re shared.
They’re time-bound.
They start at the same time.
That’s how this works.
What Happens After Draft Week?
Draft Week is just your way in.
After the week ends, you stay inside Gay Moms Club for the rest of the month with full access to your group chat, the community spaces, all of it.
No starting over.
No getting lost in a big feed.
Just people you already started connecting with…
and more room to keep it going.
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