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Join our growing community of queer mxms seeking friendship and support.

Whether you're navigating the journey of motherhood, planning to expand your family, or already rocking it as a proud parent, this is the space for you.

Summer Matchups Are Here!

Join the program to be matched with just 1-2 other mxms over the summer.

We’ve got a secret recipe for matching you with another mxm you’ll get along with!

Megan, Founder

- Megan

Founder, Gay Moms Club

Navigating mxtherhood as a queer person can often feel isolating. The mainstream narrative often overlooks the unique challenges, joys, and complexities faced by LGBTQ+ individuals.

Together, we can create a world where every LGBTQ+ mxm feels seen, heard, and supported.

  • How does this community work?
    If this is your first time being a part of an online community hosted by Circle, welcome! This platform creates a really special place where we can host events, conversation, and even resources and content all in one hub. We have a tour of the community in the pinned post here, but as you go through, it is totally normal to feel a little lost and not sure where to start. All I ask is that you trust the process and use the Welcome space to help get you up to speed with how to use this platform. The rest of the FAQs will also guide you through some frequent questions about how to use the platform.
  • What are the community guidelines?
    Gay Moms Club mission is to unite and empower LGBTQ+ mxthers by ensuring they feel seen, supported, and celebrated on their unique journey through mxtherhood. More than just a code of conduct, our community guidelines are a cheat sheet to understanding HOW we make connection so magical in this community. Our Mantras Short phrases that embody our values and how we interact in this space. Be a friend to make a friend 🎁 Be the friend you wish you had, and the universe will boomerang that goodness right back to you. That’s what we believe here. Rather than focusing on what you can get out of this space and what others can do for you, approach this community with a posture of generosity and curiosity of what YOU can do for others. We promise, good friends are just around the corner. Ask for what you need, give what you can 🔮 This is a guilt-free friend zone. You don’t need to apologize for being too busy. All we ask is that you show up when you can and give what you can. If logging in once a month to check in is all you can do right now - you do you! If you live and breathe gay mxms club - rock on! Give only what you can, but don’t be shy about asking for what you need! This is a brand new community and we know we could build something really incredible here. The only way we can do that is if you tell us honestly what you want and how we can support you. Whether that’s requesting different events, or asking for help in Discussion, this only works if you’re willing to be vulnerable and ask for what you need. We might not always be able to meet the need, but at least we will know what it is! Working Through Misunderstandings and Conflict In this diverse community, there will be misunderstandings and miscommunication. Not everyone will come to this space with the same level of knowledge and experience. In these scenarios, use Oops! Ouch! or LMO. Ouch! If you accidentally use a harmful term or make a harmful statement, take responsibility. Example: If someone makes a statement that you find hurtful or prickly, say "Ouch!" and let them know why. Oops! If you have said something that was found hurtful or potentially triggering, such as not using one’s stated pronouns, say "Oops!" and do your best to apologize and avoid it in the future. LMO Not to be confused with LMAO 😂 Don’t be overdramatic in your apology or overcompensate and make a big deal about it. Hold yourself accountable for your actions and respect requests to “LMO” (Let’s Move On). Code of Conduct​ To maintain the safety and comfort of our members, we have a membership screening process in place. We do this to ensure that all those who join our club have the best interests of our community at heart. We may ask for additional information to verify your identity. Please don't be alarmed; it's a measure to maintain the integrity of our community. Gay Moms Club is an inclusive community that thrives when you share your voice, ideas, suggestions, and input. To ensure the space remains safe and inclusive for everyone, we have some expectations that our team will enforce and uphold. Members asked to stop any inappropriate or unacceptable behavior are expected to comply with the requests of the Gay Moms Club admins immediately.​ Behavior that violates this Code of Conduct will be met with appropriate action, which may include: Written warning Removal from the community If you believe someone is violating this Code of Conduct, please contact immediately. You Must: Be kind to others Behave Use welcome and inclusive language Be respectful of others' viewpoints, even when they differ from your own Do Not: Spam Promote outside of designated spaces Share anything told to you in confidence or private message Post or link content that is abusive, hateful, or offensive Post or link content that is off-topic or disruptive to the discussion Post or link content that threatens or harasses others Post or link content that discloses private or personal matters Post or link content that is sexually explicit Make unwelcome sexual or personal advances Post, link to, or otherwise direct users to advertisements or solicitations Post or transmit any file that contains viruses, corrupted files, “Trojan Horses,” or any other contaminating or destructive features that may damage someone else’s computer Post any material that violates the copyrights or other intellectual property rights of others Impersonate any person or falsely state or otherwise misrepresent your affiliation with a person or entity Violate any other applicable law or regulation
  • Is there an app?
    You bet! To access this community on mobile, download the android app HERE or iOs app HERE.
  • What's included in my membership?
    We're dedicated to providing you with the support and resources you need as proud LGBTQ+ mxms. Here’s what you can expect from our vibrant community: 💡 Knowledge Hub: Dive into a treasure trove of over 100 resources curated to guide you through every aspect of your parenting journey with love and pride. 📆 Mix and Mingle: Step into our virtual Clubhouse! Connect and share experiences with fellow queer mxms. It's a space designed for meaningful connections and mutual support. ✍🏼 Blog: Explore our growing library of original articles and content specifically crafted for LGBTQ+ moms. From personal stories to expert advice, find inspiration and insights that resonate with your journey. 🫱🏼‍🫲🏻 Meet a Mxm: Engage in our summer program where you can match with 1-2 other moms, fostering connections and support networks that go beyond the virtual realm. 🔥 Weekly Quick Chats: Join us for lively and insightful discussions on current issues and challenges facing LGBTQ+ moms. From parenting tips to societal issues, these sessions are designed to spark dialogue and provide valuable perspectives.
  • How much does a membership cost?
    Here’s how our membership works: 💲 Membership Options: Join our community with a quarterly membership priced at $30 or opt for the annual membership at $100, which offers the best value at just $23 per month. 🌟 Benefits of Membership: Gain access to a wealth of resources and community support specific to LGBTQ+ mxms. From educational workshops to vibrant discussions. ⏰ Commitment and Flexibility: To make meaningful connections, we encourage a minimum commitment of 3 months. After that, you have the flexibility to cancel your membership renewal anytime through your account settings.

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